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* Is linked into the [[The Luciferian Abyss]] and False Parent Ideologies in either self-righteousness, or in blind astral bliss | * Is linked into the [[The Luciferian Abyss]] and False Parent Ideologies in either self-righteousness, or in blind astral bliss | ||
* In a more polarised expression, displays narcissistic self-importance and contempt for others, whilst displaying an apparent neutral | * In a more polarised expression, displays narcissistic self-importance and contempt for others, whilst displaying an apparent neutral | ||
*Is emotionally undeveloped and emotionally immature whilst believing themselves to be "above" or beyond an emotional experience. Emotional stunting is present, and often has ties into the formative years of self-experiences in the family home, or at the hands of caregivers or parents whom didn't offer the care and compassion as a model of unconditional love | * Is emotionally undeveloped and emotionally immature whilst believing themselves to be "above" or beyond an emotional experience. Emotional stunting is present, and often has ties into the formative years of self-experiences in the family home, or at the hands of caregivers or parents whom didn't offer the care and compassion as a model of unconditional love | ||
*Loves conditionally and believes in scales of deservedness | * Loves conditionally and believes in scales of deservedness | ||
* Judges others whilst stating they are not actually judging | |||
* Believes others should just follow steps to heal and doesn't give authentic time or understanding to the nurture required of the emotional pain and suffering | |||
* Believes they have been risen above the emotional wounded state, whilst operating entirely from the emotional stunted and wounded state of their shadow body | |||
* Cannot feel truths accurately as the mental body layers of this deception have been consubstantial in generating a form of emotional avoidance and coping mechanism, covering over the fact of unhealed depths of wounds | |||
* Can be prone to calling others the wounded ones, or playing the victim. This type of Victim-Shaming tends to be used as a means to label others as weak, and label them as problems (Narcissistic Archetype) | |||
* May hold a rigid viewpoint of others and uses this to levy their place in the world. Creates enemies and hierarchies despite the appearance of upholding an inner superiority complex based in self-importance | |||
* Keeps a wounded inner child in place, not allowing the softness and innocence to be fully present, often has seated in as false and inverse inner child as azazael-black lillith or similar inverted and lunar egotistical antichrist demonic forces of the forceful inner child, self-entitled inner child, as the inner child has not been nourished to the correct holy parent mother and father principle. The false neutral operates to prevent Sophianic Wisdom of the Cosmic Mother in her Golden Sun through 14D, Aquamarine Blue Ray in 13D and her expression overall. Misogyny replaces the Mother's True Sophianic Wisdom revealed in the heart of spiritual truthaskers, and truthseekers in their emotional body. | |||
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In order to remove this cognitive dissonance and false neutrality expression from blinding the emotional heart and soul matrix, one must be ready to face into the personal beliefs and rigid thoughts placed into the mind. The personal emotional wounds that have been buried, have been stuffed down and placed inside a box in the mind must be opened gently to uncover these hidden controlling energetics. When we do not know what our weakness is, and why, the antichrist forces and demonics use this to control the mind into generating a person who has no empathy for others. False empathy is given, which cannot hold a neutral place for any emotion in anyone else, and instead blames the victim for being the cause of the pain instead of seeing the person's emotional pain as similar to their own. This deflection of keeping oneself higher than an emotional being was installed into the human mind and reptilian tail negative ego by the Reptilians and Enki's false seeds of the father's compassionate expression. To understand personal emotional benefit and the reality of feeling everything very deeply as bringing one closer to heart based unconditionally loving kindness, the choice to come into more balance instead of believing all balance has already been accomplished is the route of enquiry of the self. | In order to remove this cognitive dissonance and false neutrality expression from blinding the emotional heart and soul matrix, one must be ready to face into the personal beliefs and rigid thoughts placed into the mind. The personal emotional wounds that have been buried, have been stuffed down and placed inside a box in the mind must be opened gently to uncover these hidden controlling energetics. When we do not know what our weakness is, and why, the antichrist forces and demonics use this to control the mind into generating a person who has no empathy for others. False empathy is given, which cannot hold a neutral place for any emotion in anyone else, and instead blames the victim for being the cause of the pain instead of seeing the person's emotional pain as similar to their own. This deflection of keeping oneself higher than an emotional being was installed into the human mind and reptilian tail negative ego by the Reptilians and Enki's false seeds of the father's compassionate expression. To understand personal emotional benefit and the reality of feeling everything very deeply as bringing one closer to heart based unconditionally loving kindness, the choice to come into more balance instead of believing all balance has already been accomplished is the route of enquiry of the self. | ||
During the 2025 Astrological Precession of Galactic Zodiac Universal Law of One transmissions through each constellation, the planetary body and human mental bodies are undergoing choices to see the deceptions in place, the ego lenses controling the narrow minded rigid views, and the Cosmic Father's Ruby Recoding of the Golden Kryst Tree of Life places the responsibility and choice with each person, deeply inside their hearts. | During the [[2025 Astrological Precession of Galactic Zodiac]] Universal Law of One transmissions through each constellation, the planetary body and human mental bodies are undergoing choices to see the deceptions in place, the ego lenses controling the narrow minded rigid views, and the Cosmic Father's Ruby Recoding of the Golden Kryst Tree of Life places the responsibility and choice with each person, deeply inside their hearts. | ||
Those who suffer mental pain and cannot seem to find peace in this world, have misunderstood the principles of god's words and the true nature of our god source returning into the earth to remind each human of who they really are. The blissed falsities and astral delusions made into false neutral and beliefs of being at one with god, as giving full life power to invisible guides and forces without questioning their influence and what influence we will allow these forces to have upon us, is the question one should ask when deeply unsatisfied and disillusioned with life on earth. Since humanity are awakening to the understandings that this planet was invaded, those who can sense this truth and understand the detailed mind control to prevent people operating through their human emotional bodies, their soul and heart, the shedding of the false neutral in the overlays and implants installed to prevent real deep depth of emotion and not diverting this into the mental rigidity, will need to choose to know themselves personally and deeply first and foremost, instead of believing they are the hero here to "fix" everyone into their ascended neutral life of cognitive dissonances. The healing of the mental body beliefs and questioning life and reality is required in order to move through the [[Dark Night of the Soul]] and the [[Void Spaces]] of which the soul will enter, as a process directed by godsource for each human to contemplate the meaning of their own life, and how they choose to behave and act accordingly. The False Neutral is an Ego Lens and installed superiority blocking of the heart complex, to have people see others as the wounded victims, whilst keeping the false neutral self as if it is the healed one. This lie must be broken down, especially internally as the mental pain and looping ongoing in those who cannot make sense of their reality vs their onotoligical beliefs from teachings, teachers, academics, holy texts or groups, must do the self-assessment to locate non-judgement and elevate the self into the heart-based querying which will eventually reveal absolute truths as a matter of deeper and deeper truths which stand the test of time. | Those who suffer mental pain and cannot seem to find peace in this world, have misunderstood the principles of god's words and the true nature of our god source returning into the earth to remind each human of who they really are. The blissed falsities and astral delusions made into false neutral and beliefs of being at one with god, as giving full life power to invisible guides and forces without questioning their influence and what influence we will allow these forces to have upon us, is the question one should ask when deeply unsatisfied and disillusioned with life on earth. Since humanity are awakening to the understandings that this planet was invaded, those who can sense this truth and understand the detailed mind control to prevent people operating through their human emotional bodies, their soul and heart, the shedding of the false neutral in the overlays and implants installed to prevent real deep depth of emotion and not diverting this into the mental rigidity, will need to choose to know themselves personally and deeply first and foremost, instead of believing they are the hero here to "fix" everyone into their ascended neutral life of cognitive dissonances. The healing of the mental body beliefs and questioning life and reality is required in order to move through the [[Dark Night of the Soul]] and the [[Void Spaces]] of which the soul will enter, as a process directed by godsource for each human to contemplate the meaning of their own life, and how they choose to behave and act accordingly. The False Neutral is an Ego Lens and installed superiority blocking of the heart complex, to have people see others as the wounded victims, whilst keeping the false neutral self as if it is the healed one. This lie must be broken down, especially internally as the mental pain and looping ongoing in those who cannot make sense of their reality vs their onotoligical beliefs from teachings, teachers, academics, holy texts or groups, must do the self-assessment to locate non-judgement and elevate the self into the heart-based querying which will eventually reveal absolute truths as a matter of deeper and deeper truths which stand the test of time. | ||
The lie of being neutral inside the mental body layers is that this actively prevents the inner male and inner female of inner sacred union balance inside the personal lunar to solar movements which bring one closer to the godsource deeply inside the | The lie of being neutral inside the mental body layers is that this actively prevents the inner male and inner female of inner sacred union balance inside the personal lunar to solar movements which bring one closer to the godsource deeply inside the [[Crystal Diamond Heart]]. One must know when to admit their beliefs or actions were wrong, or at fault, as an inner process, in order to shed the mental thoughts and deceptions preventing deeply intimate connections and unconditional love between couples, families, friends and to understand this process will lead to eventually non-judgemental compassion and real neutrality which holds the zero point moment where god reveals to the human deeply inside their heart and inner landscape of the heart and soul united. One must locate safety in self or others, in which to fully explore this pattern and to not avoid the painbody calling for progressional healing and true release into further peace inside the self. The false neutral competes as a superiority complex, often as a protector consciousness form inside the psyche which has been protecting the inner child over years of time from the self-realisation of all answers inside the self. The complex issues arising from this protector saviour internal complex, is that the heart in connection to and with god, asking the right questions about the self, about life are those which glean true internal humble answers over time and do not require to assume superiority above all others. | ||
==Projections upon others, Lack of Personal Responsibility, Manipulations== | |||
Projecting is a form of emotional redirection of feelings in which the person projecting upon others is capable of seeing no differences or boundaries, and in certain cases they assume dominance over others through their ingrained experiences of using projection as a coping mechanism. | |||
Projecting upon others can have various characteristics some which can be devastating to relationships due to the extremely manipulative way projection operates to apply subtle hidden agendas of control especially in relationships with others. Coercive control can be applied through projection scenarios where there is a lack of respect for other's choices, desires, wishes and needs especially if these are seen to be different or non-important to the dominant person projecting their will upon others. In such cases where the person being projected upon has a long term emotional wounding being disregarded by the ego dominant projector; this can cause lasting damages if the person utilising projection is not willing to comprehend it's hidden manipulative qualities of being used to generate divisions or dominance over others where convenient. | |||
Projection Context: | |||
A projection can be the assignment of personal values onto another person in the assumption that their needs or values ARE the same as the person projecting onto them. This creates a feeling of constriction to the person being projected upon (victim) where the projector person assumes dominance and may assert their needs as the most aligned to specific value criterion. If the victim does not behave in the manner of which was expected for the projector to obtain their needs or desires from the situation; this can act as a them assuming the projected victim is behaving disobediently. The person projecting is unlikely to be able to understand the concept of coercive manipulation and control, and instead will tend to defend their innocence through virtue signalling or minimalising the emotional response/anger/outburst whatever it may be, moving into shame, ridicule, sarcasm as they cannot accept that their specific mindset is not the overall overarching value or context of everyone. Defending their need or desire to project their values upon others, can create within them feelings of doubling down into defending their innocent request - which, to the victim was not innocent at all as it contained hidden layers of control masked as an innocent request. | |||
Real life innocent requests do not have a hidden agenda attached to the outcome. Thus, those people defending their right to project control/values and emotions upon others tend to become triggered into DARVO of which they will fight to the death to upkeep their narrative above all others, including their victim who may simply have disagreed with their point of view. | |||
Characteristics of Projecting: | |||
*Assumes everyone has the same experiences, mindset and core values - does not or cannot delineate that others have their own personal set of circumstances | |||
*Becomes agitated if others do not agree to the projection or if a person can see what's going on within the context of receiving the projection | |||
*Dismissiveness of others, or lack of listening to other's perspectives or needs - assumes they are self-righteously correct in all circumstance and becomes mortally wounded if anyone should oppose or have different ideas or personal experiences | |||
*Has set a hidden bait trap towards the other person/s in which they have a hidden agenda and not just a straight forward expression or request | |||
*Has a hidden agenda and wounding inside of the core value system sometimes from childhood and from other periods of emotional abuse. If you listen carefully and observe what their desired outcome is/was, this tells you what they feel they do not have authentic control over and want to apply it in an indirect (projection upon another person) manner. However, this acts like an enslavement chamber or consciousness trap cage like energetic being placed upon the other person. If the victim does not act or behave in the way that the projector wanted them to, this means the projector can continue their tirade of judgements, desires and shaming the person because they acted differently from the way they wanted them to. This is why it's important to comprehend the nature of the request, or the plan, or the query because this sets a trap on top of the victim/s in which if they don't behave to the trap/mould being set upon them they will unwittingly fail the test or wake the evil bear into action to continue the tirade of narcissistic injury and control. | |||
*Requests are not straight foward and may have conditions attached. More than one condition means that the narrow bandwidth being set upon the victim is a controller guage to exert and project or superimpose their personal will and desire upon another person. This derises inequality and can be seen in examples of self-entitlement and lacking of self esteem individuals who more often than not have a wound of jealousy in which their needs require the partner/group/victim to behave in specific conditions in order to prove love through jumping through hoops or behaving in a very specific way which pleases or suits the projector of controls. | |||
*Assumes everyone has the same pain threshold and shames others who cannot cope with the same pain events | |||
*Has deep unresolved ego complexes which surface into view through sub-personalities and attitudes placed upon and used to judge others | |||
*Spiritual Superiority and a holier than thou attitude which sprung upon others keeps them "above everyone else" | |||
*Blames others for their own mishaps, beliefs or deflects their feelings atop their victim in which their victim will be abused through the same means enacted upon the projector to upkeep their dominant and in-control sense of self | |||
In cases where this behaviour was learned from earlier life or through narcissistic patternings of inner superiority the projector will use judgements, shame and an internal hierarchical mental checklist to have the other person prove themselves, over and over again. This generates feelings of deep dissaproval to the victim, and locks in the feelings of deep unsafety especially in the areas of intimate relationships or with parent and child. The tyrannical vantage point of the projector is the dominant desires, even if set into poverty consciousness or using self-celebration of certain characteristics to view themselves superior to all others because the victims do not uphold the same sense of value or poverty or virtue signalling. In this case the projector uses deflections to upkeep their own sense of self, citing that the victim is the problem and fails to understand their own attitude is tyrannical and thus extremely damaging to intimacy and trust. Projection of emotions from internal to and outer person is a form of emotional abuse and lack of personal accountability. This goes hand in hand with blaming others, and never admitting fault or accepting their intent and words do not match up in the real world. | |||
Lunar Archetypes and Wounded Emotional Shadow body utilise projections as a means to cope or release the pressure from their own selves. This pattern is enacted atop others to attempt to "control" their environment or also if playing out an inner script inside the self which was learned through behaviours of abuse enacted to their own selves through angry parents, blaming parents, abusers and manipulators. However, the person choosing these behaviours is making a choice to do so. Emotionally abusive people are emotionally abusive to others because they want to be, or need something, they are not emotionally abusive because they too are wounded. This misnomer is why many people stay in emotionally abusive situations for their entire lives - whilst making excuses that their partners are just wounded. This is not authentically true; abusive people have learned this behaviour in order to get something or to control another person. We must understand this fact in order to take SELF RESPONSIBILITY over our emotions, attitudes and beliefs, and to shed the shadow by addressing our personal wounds and obtaining the choice to treat others in a respectful way. | |||
[[Category: Negative Ego Healing]] | [[Category: Negative Ego Healing]] | ||
==See Also== | ==See Also== | ||
[[Standing up to Emotional Abuse]] | |||
[[Spiritual Bypassing]] | [[Spiritual Bypassing]] | ||
[[Astral Planes 4D]] | |||
[[Soul Matrix]] | |||
[[The Luciferian Abyss]] | [[The Luciferian Abyss]] | ||
[[https://omnilov3.com/wiki/Astral_Sex,_Telepathic_Sex Astral Sex High Risk Behaviour]] | |||
[[Spiritual Bypassing]] | |||
[[Category: Negative Ego Healing]] | |||
[[Category: Implants]] | |||
[[Category: Archetypal Forces]] | |||
[[Category: Human Collective Consciousness Control]] | |||
Latest revision as of 11:35, 22 December 2025
A false neutral is the expression used to describe a person who is operating entirely from their mental perspectives, which may not be accurate assessments of reality and in some cases, based in mental intellectual assumed superiority. The false neutral tends to express through a person who describes or feels emotions as enemies of the human experience, and has suffered excess emotional trauma and found mental intellectualism as a means of escapism, from their own unhealed wounds and emotions. A false neutral has the following characteristics:
- Assumed superiority over others experiences
- A difficulty in seeing other's point of view, or their experiences and often judges others as being "wrong"
- Dismissive of feelings, emotions and concepts, feels these are weaknesses not to be trusted
- Polarised inside their mental body and beliefs
- Negative Ego uses lack of compassion for others and assumes mental intellectual superiority above others
- Operates through the belief of self- aggrandiazements as a consciousness trap, blinding the person from dealing with their unhealed emotional pain
- Uses splitting and compartmentalization which provides a cognitive dissonance
- Assumes their experiences are superior to others, which keeps self-aggrandiazement in place
- Is linked into the The Luciferian Abyss and False Parent Ideologies in either self-righteousness, or in blind astral bliss
- In a more polarised expression, displays narcissistic self-importance and contempt for others, whilst displaying an apparent neutral
- Is emotionally undeveloped and emotionally immature whilst believing themselves to be "above" or beyond an emotional experience. Emotional stunting is present, and often has ties into the formative years of self-experiences in the family home, or at the hands of caregivers or parents whom didn't offer the care and compassion as a model of unconditional love
- Loves conditionally and believes in scales of deservedness
- Judges others whilst stating they are not actually judging
- Believes others should just follow steps to heal and doesn't give authentic time or understanding to the nurture required of the emotional pain and suffering
- Believes they have been risen above the emotional wounded state, whilst operating entirely from the emotional stunted and wounded state of their shadow body
- Cannot feel truths accurately as the mental body layers of this deception have been consubstantial in generating a form of emotional avoidance and coping mechanism, covering over the fact of unhealed depths of wounds
- Can be prone to calling others the wounded ones, or playing the victim. This type of Victim-Shaming tends to be used as a means to label others as weak, and label them as problems (Narcissistic Archetype)
- May hold a rigid viewpoint of others and uses this to levy their place in the world. Creates enemies and hierarchies despite the appearance of upholding an inner superiority complex based in self-importance
- Keeps a wounded inner child in place, not allowing the softness and innocence to be fully present, often has seated in as false and inverse inner child as azazael-black lillith or similar inverted and lunar egotistical antichrist demonic forces of the forceful inner child, self-entitled inner child, as the inner child has not been nourished to the correct holy parent mother and father principle. The false neutral operates to prevent Sophianic Wisdom of the Cosmic Mother in her Golden Sun through 14D, Aquamarine Blue Ray in 13D and her expression overall. Misogyny replaces the Mother's True Sophianic Wisdom revealed in the heart of spiritual truthaskers, and truthseekers in their emotional body.
In a False Neutral, the assessment of being more intelligent than others polarises the person away from their own emotional body. This lends to a lack of inner understanding and fear of their own emotions. In some with a false neutral, their belief is that compassion is not required, and each person must account for themselves and only themselves in all behaviours. If this is fully embodied, it leads to a splitting of the mental body layers in the false self identity which is above all others. The ability to really feel empathy is stunted and may not display itself outwardly, meaning that the person shows a propensity to have everyone need to believe or go along with their version of events.
False Neutral patterning is imbalanced inner male-female polarities which have not been investigated as part of the self emotional experiences and attitudes. Instead, the false neutral develops over time as a coping mechanism which hides the pain and shadow whilst the person may also show bouts of anger and blame shifting upon others. The false neutral expression does not believe itself to have any faults, and thus also shows lack of self-accountability and lack of responsibility. This neutral is a false balance which can, over time, generate cognitive dissonance and has been witnessed in those who assume superiority inner grandiosity and cannot seem to find real peace internally or externally.
Healing from the deceptions of living in False Neutrality
In order to remove this cognitive dissonance and false neutrality expression from blinding the emotional heart and soul matrix, one must be ready to face into the personal beliefs and rigid thoughts placed into the mind. The personal emotional wounds that have been buried, have been stuffed down and placed inside a box in the mind must be opened gently to uncover these hidden controlling energetics. When we do not know what our weakness is, and why, the antichrist forces and demonics use this to control the mind into generating a person who has no empathy for others. False empathy is given, which cannot hold a neutral place for any emotion in anyone else, and instead blames the victim for being the cause of the pain instead of seeing the person's emotional pain as similar to their own. This deflection of keeping oneself higher than an emotional being was installed into the human mind and reptilian tail negative ego by the Reptilians and Enki's false seeds of the father's compassionate expression. To understand personal emotional benefit and the reality of feeling everything very deeply as bringing one closer to heart based unconditionally loving kindness, the choice to come into more balance instead of believing all balance has already been accomplished is the route of enquiry of the self.
During the 2025 Astrological Precession of Galactic Zodiac Universal Law of One transmissions through each constellation, the planetary body and human mental bodies are undergoing choices to see the deceptions in place, the ego lenses controling the narrow minded rigid views, and the Cosmic Father's Ruby Recoding of the Golden Kryst Tree of Life places the responsibility and choice with each person, deeply inside their hearts.
Those who suffer mental pain and cannot seem to find peace in this world, have misunderstood the principles of god's words and the true nature of our god source returning into the earth to remind each human of who they really are. The blissed falsities and astral delusions made into false neutral and beliefs of being at one with god, as giving full life power to invisible guides and forces without questioning their influence and what influence we will allow these forces to have upon us, is the question one should ask when deeply unsatisfied and disillusioned with life on earth. Since humanity are awakening to the understandings that this planet was invaded, those who can sense this truth and understand the detailed mind control to prevent people operating through their human emotional bodies, their soul and heart, the shedding of the false neutral in the overlays and implants installed to prevent real deep depth of emotion and not diverting this into the mental rigidity, will need to choose to know themselves personally and deeply first and foremost, instead of believing they are the hero here to "fix" everyone into their ascended neutral life of cognitive dissonances. The healing of the mental body beliefs and questioning life and reality is required in order to move through the Dark Night of the Soul and the Void Spaces of which the soul will enter, as a process directed by godsource for each human to contemplate the meaning of their own life, and how they choose to behave and act accordingly. The False Neutral is an Ego Lens and installed superiority blocking of the heart complex, to have people see others as the wounded victims, whilst keeping the false neutral self as if it is the healed one. This lie must be broken down, especially internally as the mental pain and looping ongoing in those who cannot make sense of their reality vs their onotoligical beliefs from teachings, teachers, academics, holy texts or groups, must do the self-assessment to locate non-judgement and elevate the self into the heart-based querying which will eventually reveal absolute truths as a matter of deeper and deeper truths which stand the test of time.
The lie of being neutral inside the mental body layers is that this actively prevents the inner male and inner female of inner sacred union balance inside the personal lunar to solar movements which bring one closer to the godsource deeply inside the Crystal Diamond Heart. One must know when to admit their beliefs or actions were wrong, or at fault, as an inner process, in order to shed the mental thoughts and deceptions preventing deeply intimate connections and unconditional love between couples, families, friends and to understand this process will lead to eventually non-judgemental compassion and real neutrality which holds the zero point moment where god reveals to the human deeply inside their heart and inner landscape of the heart and soul united. One must locate safety in self or others, in which to fully explore this pattern and to not avoid the painbody calling for progressional healing and true release into further peace inside the self. The false neutral competes as a superiority complex, often as a protector consciousness form inside the psyche which has been protecting the inner child over years of time from the self-realisation of all answers inside the self. The complex issues arising from this protector saviour internal complex, is that the heart in connection to and with god, asking the right questions about the self, about life are those which glean true internal humble answers over time and do not require to assume superiority above all others.
Projections upon others, Lack of Personal Responsibility, Manipulations
Projecting is a form of emotional redirection of feelings in which the person projecting upon others is capable of seeing no differences or boundaries, and in certain cases they assume dominance over others through their ingrained experiences of using projection as a coping mechanism.
Projecting upon others can have various characteristics some which can be devastating to relationships due to the extremely manipulative way projection operates to apply subtle hidden agendas of control especially in relationships with others. Coercive control can be applied through projection scenarios where there is a lack of respect for other's choices, desires, wishes and needs especially if these are seen to be different or non-important to the dominant person projecting their will upon others. In such cases where the person being projected upon has a long term emotional wounding being disregarded by the ego dominant projector; this can cause lasting damages if the person utilising projection is not willing to comprehend it's hidden manipulative qualities of being used to generate divisions or dominance over others where convenient.
Projection Context: A projection can be the assignment of personal values onto another person in the assumption that their needs or values ARE the same as the person projecting onto them. This creates a feeling of constriction to the person being projected upon (victim) where the projector person assumes dominance and may assert their needs as the most aligned to specific value criterion. If the victim does not behave in the manner of which was expected for the projector to obtain their needs or desires from the situation; this can act as a them assuming the projected victim is behaving disobediently. The person projecting is unlikely to be able to understand the concept of coercive manipulation and control, and instead will tend to defend their innocence through virtue signalling or minimalising the emotional response/anger/outburst whatever it may be, moving into shame, ridicule, sarcasm as they cannot accept that their specific mindset is not the overall overarching value or context of everyone. Defending their need or desire to project their values upon others, can create within them feelings of doubling down into defending their innocent request - which, to the victim was not innocent at all as it contained hidden layers of control masked as an innocent request.
Real life innocent requests do not have a hidden agenda attached to the outcome. Thus, those people defending their right to project control/values and emotions upon others tend to become triggered into DARVO of which they will fight to the death to upkeep their narrative above all others, including their victim who may simply have disagreed with their point of view.
Characteristics of Projecting:
- Assumes everyone has the same experiences, mindset and core values - does not or cannot delineate that others have their own personal set of circumstances
- Becomes agitated if others do not agree to the projection or if a person can see what's going on within the context of receiving the projection
- Dismissiveness of others, or lack of listening to other's perspectives or needs - assumes they are self-righteously correct in all circumstance and becomes mortally wounded if anyone should oppose or have different ideas or personal experiences
- Has set a hidden bait trap towards the other person/s in which they have a hidden agenda and not just a straight forward expression or request
- Has a hidden agenda and wounding inside of the core value system sometimes from childhood and from other periods of emotional abuse. If you listen carefully and observe what their desired outcome is/was, this tells you what they feel they do not have authentic control over and want to apply it in an indirect (projection upon another person) manner. However, this acts like an enslavement chamber or consciousness trap cage like energetic being placed upon the other person. If the victim does not act or behave in the way that the projector wanted them to, this means the projector can continue their tirade of judgements, desires and shaming the person because they acted differently from the way they wanted them to. This is why it's important to comprehend the nature of the request, or the plan, or the query because this sets a trap on top of the victim/s in which if they don't behave to the trap/mould being set upon them they will unwittingly fail the test or wake the evil bear into action to continue the tirade of narcissistic injury and control.
- Requests are not straight foward and may have conditions attached. More than one condition means that the narrow bandwidth being set upon the victim is a controller guage to exert and project or superimpose their personal will and desire upon another person. This derises inequality and can be seen in examples of self-entitlement and lacking of self esteem individuals who more often than not have a wound of jealousy in which their needs require the partner/group/victim to behave in specific conditions in order to prove love through jumping through hoops or behaving in a very specific way which pleases or suits the projector of controls.
- Assumes everyone has the same pain threshold and shames others who cannot cope with the same pain events
- Has deep unresolved ego complexes which surface into view through sub-personalities and attitudes placed upon and used to judge others
- Spiritual Superiority and a holier than thou attitude which sprung upon others keeps them "above everyone else"
- Blames others for their own mishaps, beliefs or deflects their feelings atop their victim in which their victim will be abused through the same means enacted upon the projector to upkeep their dominant and in-control sense of self
In cases where this behaviour was learned from earlier life or through narcissistic patternings of inner superiority the projector will use judgements, shame and an internal hierarchical mental checklist to have the other person prove themselves, over and over again. This generates feelings of deep dissaproval to the victim, and locks in the feelings of deep unsafety especially in the areas of intimate relationships or with parent and child. The tyrannical vantage point of the projector is the dominant desires, even if set into poverty consciousness or using self-celebration of certain characteristics to view themselves superior to all others because the victims do not uphold the same sense of value or poverty or virtue signalling. In this case the projector uses deflections to upkeep their own sense of self, citing that the victim is the problem and fails to understand their own attitude is tyrannical and thus extremely damaging to intimacy and trust. Projection of emotions from internal to and outer person is a form of emotional abuse and lack of personal accountability. This goes hand in hand with blaming others, and never admitting fault or accepting their intent and words do not match up in the real world.
Lunar Archetypes and Wounded Emotional Shadow body utilise projections as a means to cope or release the pressure from their own selves. This pattern is enacted atop others to attempt to "control" their environment or also if playing out an inner script inside the self which was learned through behaviours of abuse enacted to their own selves through angry parents, blaming parents, abusers and manipulators. However, the person choosing these behaviours is making a choice to do so. Emotionally abusive people are emotionally abusive to others because they want to be, or need something, they are not emotionally abusive because they too are wounded. This misnomer is why many people stay in emotionally abusive situations for their entire lives - whilst making excuses that their partners are just wounded. This is not authentically true; abusive people have learned this behaviour in order to get something or to control another person. We must understand this fact in order to take SELF RESPONSIBILITY over our emotions, attitudes and beliefs, and to shed the shadow by addressing our personal wounds and obtaining the choice to treat others in a respectful way.
See Also
Standing up to Emotional Abuse